If your not abnormal in some way, you are abnormal.

 Is there a tendency for people to want to stand out from the crowd?

Do people choose cloths or hair style to be different from others?

Is brightly colored hair an attempt to be unique?

Is body jewelry an attempt to be unique? 

Is body art (tattoos) an attempt to be unique?

Do people choose gender identity to be different?

Do people choose sexual orientation to be different?

Does a special talent make you different from other people?

Is it comforting to be with other people different in the same way that you are different?

Who is 'they'?

Are 'they' wealthy?

Are 'they' oppressors or oppressed?

Are 'they' more greedy than me?

Did 'they' have an easier path in life than me?

Did 'they' work, study and practice to gain in life?

Love or Hate

Is it love or is it hate?

• Does all criticism seem like hate to the recipient?
• Is all criticism give in hate?
• Can criticism be given in love and received as hate?
• Can criticism be received constructively?
• Is punishment a type of criticism?
• Can punishment encourage people to stop harmful actions?
• What are harmful actions?
• Are they harmful to the person doing them?
• Are they harmful to society?
• Can punishment be given in love?
• Can punishment be given in anger?

And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.  It is better for you to enter life crippled than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire. Mark 9:43

• So what is a sin and why is it so bad?
• Does a sin distance you from God?
• Does a sin distance you from other people?
• Can not doing something be a sin?
• Is sin relative or absolute?
  So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.  James 4:17
• Can sinful actions be listed as in Galatians 5:19-21?
  Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
• If someone sins are they a bad person?
  For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become accountable for all of it.  James 2:10
  For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,  Romans 3:23

How do you separate training to discourage sin from hate?

Is encouraging people to not become addicted to "the works of the flesh", love or hate?

Is punishment for sinful actions, love or hate?

Nature

Are unnatural sexual preferences genetic or learned?

Is sex addictive?

What is sexy?

It seams sexual preferences are established during puberty and difficult to change after that.

There is a broad range of sexual preferences and many are culturally driven.

Is pure white skin sexier than tanned skin?  Was snow white fairest in the land?

Are small feet sexy?  Some cultures bound feet to make them smaller.

Are wide hips sexy?  In some cultures women pad their hips to look more attractive.

What about weight?  Some cultures worship several hundred pound women.

What about violence?  Often violence is associated with sex.  Some people enjoy S&M.

What about dominance?  Some people enjoy being dominated and some enjoy dominating.

Why do some groups claim without cause and effect proof, that people are born with certain sexual preferences?

Why do many people try to classify people based on sexual preferences?

These preferences cover a wide range of types and actions.  Is it like trying to classify people as tall or short?  Some are clearly and tall and some are clearly short but most fall in between.